Most of us have created our lives, careers and relationships based on a compilation of advice, judgments and viewpoints from our parents, friends, teachers, etc., thinking that the solution must always be outside us.
And sooner or later, these points of view that we had validated as true prevent us from activating our difference to create our life.
Little by little, we begin to doubt our choices, realizing the energy cost of living this life. And we prefer to judge our choices and ourselves to avoid making new ones.
And yet, from the moment we were born, everything was possible and flexible. Very soon, we were asking questions about everything, triggering attention, then annoyance and finally exasperation from those around us, who hoped that an answer would satisfy our curiosity. Remember the many " Why? " after each answer you received, right up to the ultimate response: "You'll understand later! "
Then one day, we stopped being curious, we stopped questioning everything, gradually extinguishing our singularity and our insatiable appetite to learn in all directions in order to match the expected normal.
What if you could rediscover that insatiable curiosity, that liveliness to act and react, to create, to be yourself with all the expertise you've acquired over the years? What if you could become the expert of yourself in the face of your qualities, your limitations and even your illnesses and chronic pain?
- What if asking a question had nothing to do with finding the right answer?
- What if the purpose of a question had nothing to do with justifying what's happening to you?
- What if a question could help you unlock new awareness, discover new choices that you couldn't even recognize before, so accustomed are we to concluding, justifying and judging?
By asking a question, we have the opportunity to stop, for a brief moment, the routine train of thoughts, emotions, feelings, conclusions and judgments that always brings us back to the same place: more judgments.
It's true that life has all sorts of aspects, challenges, joys and unknowns, and that we're weak or unaware enough to prefer to play the role of the cute hamster running with willpower on its wheel, hoping that nothing can happen to it.
But life is not measured by the number of revolutions we make on this wheel.
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away, that fill us with wonder and where we are truly ourselves.
Unfortunately, we prefer to choose this false sense of security, accepting to do what we've always done, even if it no longer works. What if we stopped believing that living your life will magically happen without our commitment?
I chose to be the main Source for new choices and new ways of proceeding, of thinking in order to cut short this infernal cycle of -Ican't, I have no choice- without needing to separate myself from anyone or anything?
By letting go of judgments about yourself, beliefs about everything and limitations that aren't yours,
What new choices might be available to you?
